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Tell the truth takes courage, need courage; telling lies need the nerve, needs few shame, two is not easy.
Ji has just passed away master in Chinese studies, said: “the truth about failure, lies the whole do not speak.” This is certainly a very high level, there is no significant cultivation and cultivation, are extremely difficult to do.
In many cases, the truth is not quite sit well with sound, not very nice, people think it does not face other people happy even angered As furious, and it is common. Because the truth is usually more straightforward and frank, straightforward and does not add a lot of meaningless whitewash the stage and gorgeous, sharply, Zhichuo lesions.

The false impression that sound is much more comfortable, Junji much. Because the lie to conceal the truth, the psychological needs of others in the guessing, and vanity cases, such as carefully and skillfully “processing” to tell. It is very gentle, very sweet, very mildly, very ambiguous.

Because of lies and the truth of the above differences, so at some point, telling lies to flourish, enjoying the sun at high noon, fine, too proud;
And speak the truth are inevitably marginalized, in the cold, sometimes even threatened, because he is no doubt a lot of damage among the “hidden rules”, preventing some people’s vested interests.

Lu Xun had a short essay, tell lies and speak the truth for those who carried out a thorough analysis. Say that the child will be developed to longevity, although saying that the lie, but won the master’s commendation; and that telling the truth – that said that “this child who will die” – found it hard to a fist. The man brought me ugly, but no matter who the future are going to die, and this is true. Therefore, Lu Xun joking that to want to listen to the sounds nice that the owner, not telling lies, had said: “This child, huh, huh, haha, hehe -.”

One of my classmates gave me about their units one person, that person is not a small lead, and his modest kind, honest and upright, Jieruchou. He had a rule, to the inspection below, should be eat, please, do not receive a souvenir, if received, can only be received no more than 20 yuan price of things. Therefore, we are not willing to travel with him, too hard, too suffers with it. The kind of bread and water, the pomp and style of work, and selfless, dedicated work attitude and it makes many people feel too uncomfortable, even unhappy. However, there is no way someone is really simple, really honest, really honest. You almost could not pick other people’s problems, not the masses about their reputation, so, although I think that this person be in the way, but no way would like. Later, to promote a higher level cadres, to examine, for a discussion of this unit were, well, chance. We do not find any fault of his What? We can put him “transport” Go. He was gone, no one obstruction is not our hands into effect? Thus, to examine higher level when we blown away by the cadres, extol, saying “this is not promotion of cadres, who was also promoted?” So, it was higher cadres promoted away.

This cadres were promoted so much walking as it is by other people “run” away, although this “run” is a crown, very stately.
But this has given us cadres left a deep impression. People really set a good image, is an honest and simple, clear clean government cadres. However, such a person in a unit does not recruit people to be see it, sometimes even annoying. Because they are impartial, contempt for the rule, so that power in the sunshine. Doing so, he can not help but make some people unhappy, inconvenient, it is doing everything possible for him to Tie, trouble, even worse, for rumor mongering, slander people hard. So, dare to speak the truth, the situation is generally not particularly good.

But even so, we should vigorously promote the tell the truth, tell the truth, promote the spirit of seeking truth. Because the truth, the truth reflect the objective reality, the law reflects the essence of things. Although the good name, but finally was something beneficial. The more telling lies in order to choose the easy way out, please, curry favor curry favor a forced out of the seemingly gentle sounds nice, then, listening to the people happy though, but if you work here, you will certainly go astray, wrong person makes a botch.

Therefore, we advocate Jilao called “incomplete speak the truth, the whole do not speak lies,” the concept of interaction with others. Tell the truth to be particular about certain ways, to let people understand you telling the truth, you speak the truth to get out, take your eyes from the heart telling the truth. On lies, we should be good to identify, clear-headed, especially to hear other people praise you, praise you, they must seriously consider and reflect, to distinguish the authenticity, in order to clear right and wrong, do not blindly optimistic, self-important.